Undergraduates should not be allowed to get married at college
Should undergraduates be allowed to get married at college? My position is quite clear in which I disagreed a lot with it.
Though most of us are adults now, and we have the right to fall in love, we are still too young to undertake the obligation and duty for a family. First, we don’t have a steady income to support a family which makes up with finance more than two lovebirds. Besides, marriage is not only the affair of two persons but also the currency of two families. Therefore you should make sure that you can accept all things about your bridegroom or bride including his or her family and the customs of the family. Sometimes, you should spend a lot of time receiving the relatives-in-low, which is hard for you a college student to achieve. Thus, you don’t have the necessary time and energy.
Another important factor that should be taken into consideration is that learning is the most important thing for a college student. As you know, undergraduates have heavy pressures and huge tasks in the four-year learning period to complete the courses, pass the exams, develop the skills and improve the abilities, which would be disturbed a lot by the marriage. What I want to stress is that college is the place to learn skills and grow, where you can make friends and love others at the same time. All these that need time and energy to accumulate will be
your treasure lifelong. And it will be difficult for you to gain after you going out of the college.
So having a balance with learning and emotion is the right thing you should do in college, but not get married with your whole heart. That’s to say I think it is ridiculous to allow the undergraduates to get married at college.
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